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SRINAGAR: Social activist and community organizer Tarana Burke created the phrase "Me Too" on the MySpace social network in 2006 as part of a grassroots campaign to promote "empowerment through empathy" among women of color who have experienced sexual abuse, particularly within underprivileged communities. Burke, who is creating a documentary titled Me Too, has said she was inspired to use the phrase after being unable to respond to a 13-year-old girl who confided to her that she had been sexually assaulted. Burke later wished she had simply told the girl, "me too".

After accusations against Weinstein surfaced in 2017, actress Alyssa Milano encouraged spreading the phrase as part of an awareness campaign to show the scale and ubiquity of the problem, tweeting: "If all the women who have been sexually harassed or assaulted wrote 'Me too.' as a status, we might give people a sense of the magnitude of the problem. Milano later attributed the phrase to Burke, calling Burke's story "heartwarming and inspiring.

This campaign has reached every corner of world through social media, especially Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. It defined a path and provided a platform to the voices of women who have witnessed series of harassment, molestation or rape in their particular lives. No doubt, thousands of organization, Government bodies, judiciary, commissions and police forces are working for protection of women and girl child across the world. Still a daughter, mother, wife or sister have faced wrath of molestation in their particular lives.

Women is a mirror of society, crafted by Almighty to lead the society and decorate it with morals and values but same women is being raped or molested in broad day light in our country since 1973 and still we are waiting to witness a change in the laws for protection ad safety of women. Some of the cases which has been discussed in print and electronic media as well as in chambers of courts are as, but still the cries of victims are going louder and louder  1.Aruna Shanbaugh Rape Case 1973, 2. Mathura Rape case in 1972, 3. Priyadarshini Mattoo rape and murder case in 1996, 4. Anjana rape case 199, 5. Soumya murder and rape case, 6. Mumbai gang rape, 7. Bhanwari Devi Gang rape case in 1992, 8. Scarlett keeling rape and murder case in 2009, 9. Imrana rape case 2005, 10.Delhi Gang rape case 2012. 

These are just numbers. Hundreds of rape cases are being not registered or neither being heard, either victim feel threat to life or boycott from society. Still our society is working same. Harsh laws are still being debated in lobbies of parliament and a woman is crying for her legal rights guaranteed by constitution of India. She is not meant for Stalked, Abused, Molested or Raped. She has been sent by God, to get honor and respect”. 

Social media have helped a lot to popularize the campaigns regarding issues of Health, Environment, and culture or about women rights. India is known as divine land of versatile culture and respects towards women and rights to women, with safeguard by our constitution, but still in this era of nuclear technology, cyber security or freedom as well as liberty. Somewhere at every minute a women is being molested or raped. 

CEEOIndia , a voluntarily organization trying to fill the gap between people and government through a bridge and channelizing ideas of communication from people to government and government to people on policies, bills or opinions from people especially living in rural areas. 

With support from colleges, Universities, Girl schools, SHG members, small CBO’s, NGO’s, women lobbying groups and volunteers across India. The organization also tried to work on MeToo campaign and started to listen about the voices of millions of women across India. We started from south of India and landed in northern part of our beautiful country and at last we make our entry to the paradise of world and crown of our country India i.e Jammu and Kashmir.

The stories are not different from rest part of India but the spirit among youth to withstand as a shield of respect for every woman in the society spread a message of savior. No doubt molestation and eve teasing are working as parallel corridors and sensitization is the must need of hour among teens.

This story is a message to every women or a girl child across the nation that Tahmeena Rizvi, a young and determined graduate in Business Administration from University of Kashmir. She has completed her schooling from Tahira Khanm’s and Govt. Girls Higher secondary, listening her voice and a passion to work for community is itself a revolution. A dedicated UPSC aspirant and firm believer in women empowerment and livelihood make her claim stronger about equality and support to the women in our country. Her Father Shri Syed Ibrahim Rizvi, supported the daughter in her ambition to work for the women across the Kashmir province. “I believe in her and wish that she rise above the hallmark and lead the women of this society towards a prosperous journey of empowerment and livelihood”

Kashmir is indeed a beautiful place on the earth but somewhere a woman is dying because of autocracy, Family disputes, peer pressures , Molestation and even eve teasing. Our society is so man framed that sometimes to get the support of parents for standing up with a cause oriented for women issues, needs tons of strength.   I usually engage myself in visiting state women commission and imbibed by the great work done by smt. Nayeema Mehjoor, chairperson SWC-J&K, Iron lady of Jammu and Kashmir state and try to get first hand stories of victims, who have lodged their complaints for redressal or help in the commission. 

With launch of Metoo campaign and support from CEEOIndia by selecting my work and dedication as Women Ambassador for #Metoo campaign in association with SAARC Union as well as support from both state and central government make me write more and more about stories of molestation faced by women behind closed doors in this beautiful place. With scope to connect with Ministry of Women and child development, I am very thankful to smt. Maneka Gandhi ji, Hon’ble union minister for women and child development, for listening grievances of women from Jammu and Kashmir state.  Our determined Hon’ble chief Minister Madam, Mehbooba Mufti is very much supportive in issues regarding women harassment and particularly in development of girl child education and her firm stand in providing financial assistance under Laadli Beti scheme to the new-born Girl child of our state. 

Metoo provided a platform to the millions of women to record their history of harassment and molestation and message has been spread to work constructively for the honor of women and I am very thankful to IWSLG, METOO Asia and Europe, CEEOIndia, Ministry of Women and child development, National women commission, state women commission, CM Office, Govt. of J&K, Jammu and Kashmir police especially women police cell for being so much supportive in listening my quoted grievances about cases regarding women molestation and I am thankful my friends, Teachers and parents for supporting me to stand up and raise my voices for the rights of women. “

Tahmeena Rizvi has been appreciated so far by different organizations and Government departments across the nation. Her work in the sector of women empowerment and livelihood has been submitted to the office of Hon’ble Prime Minister of India, to recognize her small efforts to make the society safe and crime free for women in Jammu and Kashmir” we all wish her all the best for future steps and Metoo is verily doing its best to recognize the faces who are working for the future of Girl Child in our nation India.

 

The writer is a fellow social worker from SIU College in Carbondale, Vidisha Anand from Delhi University Project coordinator IWSLG, Tahseen Mustafa, PM to CEEOIndia, story narration Apoorva Balla FTI and village coordinator GH. Hussian from CEEOIndia HR Team.

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LADAKH: Not even in his wildest dreams did a young man from the sturdy valleys of Kargil - Ladakh had thought that he would get an opportunity to represent the country at an international forum. The 19th World Festival of Youths and Students  2017 held at the city of Sochi in the Russian Federation saw the participation of a delegation of the Union Ministry of Youth Affairs consisting  of One hundred Twenty-five  and students' leaders from across the country. The delegation had student and youths leaders from all across the country. Mohd Hassan Pasha, a youth leader working in the high mountainous regions of Ladakh had made it to the final list. 
 
Mr. Pasha has been involved in youth politics from the last Six years and have been instrumental in voicing the concerns of the youth and the students. Working with Bhartaiya Janata Party (BJP) major national party, Mr. Pasha has successfully acted as a bridge between the youth and students' community from the far flung Kargil and the echleons of power in the state capitals as well as New Delhi. His contribution has been hailed by the students community. Besides he has been struggling hard for the construction of a sports stadium of the highest standards in his native place, which today stands sanctioned. He has been extremely vocal about his opinions regarding the injustice meted out to the students' community in particular and the youths in general.
 
"Look, we are no more living in the twentieth century. Today when we have the boon of technology, why should we shy away from voicing our concerns. If we won't voice our concerns then who will? We, the youth, are the future and it is for us to decide what kind of a future do we look upto?" Mr.Pasha said while conversing with this correspondent. 
 
Asked about the Youth festival, he said that it was an experience he would remember a lifetime. "Events like these open up your mind. When you see people from other cultures and other countries, you get to appreciate the diversity. When you dress up in your traditional attire where everyone else is flaunting theirs, you learn to appreciate your own culture even more. When you get to listen to great leaders like the Russian President, it does instill a sense of confidence in you.  Mr. Afroz Shah, environmentalist and Lawyer from India, Mr. Gamal Albinsaid a young doctor from Indonesia, Artem Oganov a young scientist from Russai and Reeshemah Krystal Ball, a young artist from Jamaica were some of the extraordinary youth icons who got to interact one on one with the Russian President. Witnessing a great leader like Mr. Putin interacting one on one with young people who came from all over the world with a diverse range of ideas was extremely enriching," he added.
 
Mr. Pasha said that he was happy to have represented the country at the largest youth festival held in the world. The festival saw the participation of more than 30,000 people from 180 countries. During the festival Mr. Pasha took part in several conferences and spoke about the need for mutual understanding among the nations of the world so that peace and stability is ensured. It was interesting to note that a very vocal supporter to his ideas came from a youth who was a member of the Pakistani delegation. It was a bit disappointing to Mr. Pasha that he could not find any member from Gilgit-Baltistan in the Pakistani contingent. "Participation in this festival, which is celebrated in a different country after every four year or so, also led to the realisation that English as a language is very over rated in our country, instead we should focus more on our regional languages. It is okay that English is a connecting language, however we should let that be just that. A connecting language, nothing more.  This is what I personally felt while interacting with youths from Russia, Germany, France and many other nations. They take so much pride in speaking their own language," Mr. Pasha said.
 
Coming from a humble family background from one of the remotest places in the country, it was certainly quite an achievement for a middle class young man to have represented his country on such a platform of international repute. Besides celebrating the festival of Lights - Deepavali - in the Olympics city of Sochi, the Indian delegation took part in various other cultural events during the cultural exchange programmes. Mr. Pasha proudly donned the Goncha, traditional dress from Kargil - Ladakh, that he had brought all the way from home. 
 
Events such as these also do enhance a person's ability to think broader due to the exchange of ideas and thoughts. This is what Mr. Pasha thinks was the biggest takeaway from the event held from October 12 - 22 in the Russian Federation. "I hope to contribute to my society whatever I learner from the tour. It was a great learning experience." Mr. Pasha signed off with these remarks.

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JAMMU: Meenu Mahajan,  the first Mrs. India from J&K has been conferred with the National Excellence Award (NIER) in New Delhi. The National Excellence Award was presented to Meenu Mahajan by Bollywood actoress Mahima Chowdhary and popular character actor Rakesh Bedi and other dignitaries. The award in the category of Indian Women Achiever was bagged by Meenu Mahajan who was crowned as Mrs. India exquisite, Queen for a cause and also the winner of sub title Ms. Beautiful Skin in 2016. A Social Development Specialist by profession,Meenu Mahajan has also been selected as the ambassador of betiyaan foundation, J&K